Still New

Today is one of those days where I just don't want to be new anymore.  I've had a good attitude this move for the most part and I know it takes time to get to know people and feel comfortable, but some days I just don't want to do it anymore.  I have three things a week I go to now, on Mondays I go to a Mom to Mom Bible study at a community church, on Wednesdays I go to coffee break at my church (all older ladies and Callum is the only kid in nursery) and Fridays I go to a public play group.  The Monday group is the newest one, today was my second time.  I love the study and the ladies seem really nice.  Last night I had a rough night with Callum, we hosted Bible study but he needed to be comforted so I had to be out for most of it and then he woke up at 4 AM and had trouble going back down and cried for about an hour and a half.  So today I just wanted to sit down with a friend and talk about the stress and frustration of it all, and it's so hard to with a group of people I don't know yet.  Then after Mom to Mom today Callum screamed and cried in the car most of the way home.  He's asleep now thankfully.  Today I just feel new and alone, but I know tomorrow will be better.

Life has been good though, I am really enjoying this year off with Callum.  I've had a lot of time to think and reflect.  One of the things I've been convicted about lately is my stuff.  Even though I don't spend a lot of $ on stuff, I'm constantly dealing with it and focusing on how to get more stuff that will enhance our lives.  I feel God is challenging me to live with less and focus more on my family than having to deal with my things.  I started going through my clothes and bags and have a box full of stuff and want to go through my kitchen and sewing stash.  I know I can live with way less!

Justin and I have been working on the outside of the house now that the weather is warmer.  Last weekend I cleaned our front porch and love the space now! It had layers of dirt and grime.  I first swept, mopped then went through four basins of warm water scrubbing on my hands and knees.  It was so worth it though.  We live on a dead end street and really enjoy sitting out there and chatting over a drink.

Yesterday we walked to church!  We'd been talking about it and finally did it.  It only took us 25 minutes, and it felt so good to have that time to walk and talk in the morning.  On our way back Callum feel asleep in the stroller so we stopped at a Bistro by our house and ate lunch on the patio.  It was still a bit chilly but we were dressed for it, so it wasn't too bad.  We live a couple blocks away from Wortley Village which has a few stores and restaurants.  We really enjoying being able to walk to a lot of things! 

Callum's eczema is still a struggle and I'm working on better sleep solutions for him.  Right now he sleeps in a sleep sack with the arm holes sewed shut so that he doesn't scratch.  I made him a zippadeezip, but I tried it out the week he was teething so it didn't go over so well.  I think I'll try it again this week.  I'm happy with how it turned out though.  I want to make more and do a few tweaks to my pattern.  

Justin and I have been getting our puzzling on lately!  We feel like we watch too much TV and Justin's brother and his wife started doing a puzzle so I picked one up at Goodwill.  It's a lot more fun than I thought it would be.  I find that I'll sit down for five minutes and an hour will go by.  My 2 years old niece was over the other day and wanted to "help" do the puzzle.  I was out of the room for a few minutes getting lunch ready and when I came back she had taken apart half of the puzzle!  She thought she was helping and was really upset when she realized she had messed it up.  I felt bad that she felt bad! 

Justin and I have been talking a lot about our trip to the Philippines.  We really want to do it soon before my parents retire but it's so hard to figure out when a good time would be.  We were thinking November, but since Melody got engaged, my parents want to go to the wedding and we would too, hopefully.  So now we might go to the Philippines in August!  I still won't be working and we won't have to worry about getting Callum out of daycare (he'll be in part-time).  The only thing is Justin might not be able to get it off, so we'll see.  It's been a dream of mine to go back.  I know that it'll work out if God wants it to and he has the perfect timing for us.  It's really hard though to be patient after years and years of waiting already and now we have the money and time to go.   Sometimes I just want to be done learning life lessons! :) 

Well, I should go eat lunch.  It feels so good to blog and share about life.  I'm so thankful for this blog even though I'm not on much, it's great that it's still here!

So busy.

And I love it.  Learning how to juggle.  Here's some of the things I've been doing:

• Weekly after-school kids club for the students across the street at the elementary school
• Weekly small group
• Weekly Bible Study
• Weekly my mom comes to hang out and play board games
• Visiting Joe's grandma in the hospital
• Gym (not as much as I should)
• Hosting two girls last weekend who were part of the "Children of the World" choir
• Babysitting Colton this weekend
• Watching kids at the church while their parents attended a marriage conference yesterday
• Helping out some folks in small group (taking meals to sick, picking up kids from school, taking one of their kids to PT who just had surgery)
• People over for dinner
• Taking a family to church today
• Taking a meal to a homeless shelter
• Transporting some ladies from the homeless shelter to a church event

This is "fun" stuff so I've been behind on housework.  However I'm mostly caught up on my daily chores.  I had a friend coming and doing my weekly chores for me while I watched her kids, but their family has been sick so the floors are in terrible need of cleaning.  I've also sucked at tidying up the house.  Rachel's coming for dinner; thankfully it's just Papa Murphy's pizza.  But I really want to try out a new recipe for cream cheese brownies.

Bad babysitter move yesterday:  Colton fell asleep in the car when I was driving back from doing childcare at the church.  I let him sleep in the car for about an hour and then woke him up.  He came inside and crashed on the couch.  He had been coughing some so I wondered if he was getting sick and let him sleep for another hour.  And he obviously couldn't get to sleep last night.  He kept waking me up because he couldn't sleep (after he refused to sleep on the top bunk unless I slept on the bottom bunk - not happening, but I made him a fort out of blankets on the bottom bunk and that made him happy.)  Joe was frustrated because Colton wanted the hall light on, and around midnight finally told Colton he had to suck it up and be bored in bed.  I did let him play with some cars for a while and gave him some books.  Still, not smart babysitting move. 

Colton's looking forward to church today though he says he will not go to the kids care and he wants to sit with me, especially for the singing.  I encouraged him to go build social skills but he doesn't want to, so whatever.  He refused to play with the other kids at childcare yesterday too...and was actually really rude to some of them.  We had several stern talkings-to...I've never had him behave this poorly.  Funny how taking away screen time motivates so quickly, though.  Only child syndrome, I guess.

I got an online membership to America's Test Kitchen.  I've made 3 of their recipes so far:  chicken stew, sesame-crusted salmon with lemon and ginger, and gluten free chocolate chip cookies because we had GF company.   One problem is that they test the best equipment and so now I want different pans...a broiler rack...etc.  Unnecessary things, but things that from ATK's tests make a difference in the food quality.  I kept making too much food though in my zeal and we had too many leftovers last week..and now we have no food.  *sigh.*

Joe's grandma is having bowel surgery sometime next week.  So I don't know if I'll be visiting as often.

Next Saturday is my annual birthday party/diaper drive.  I'm so glad Becca and Angela can come.  I haven't done any planning though so I need to get on that.

Legs have been very strong for short periods of time.  I can walk normally most of the time unless I'm walking a lot.  Some leg symptoms still; I've learned that elevating my legs or at least sitting with my legs crossed keeps them from hurting.  Apparently they don't like the blood rushing downward?  Whatever, it works.

Joe and I are going to NY and DC with another couple in June.  We don't have our tickets because Joe is trying to find out if he can get one more day off work.  We'll be visiting Janae in DC and also enjoying NY.  It's Janae's birthday, and the other couple's anniversary, and ours too.  I'm really looking forward to it!

That's all for now; time to leave for church.

spring break is almost over!

I have been enjoying my spring break!  Classes start up again on Monday for my last quarter at OC, but I am not thinking about that right now.  The last two weeks have been full of just relaxing and doing fun things.

Last week turned into a pretty busy week, nonetheless.  I visited Angela and my sister with the kids, then we hurried home to get everything packed for our overnight at my in-laws.  I also went and modeled for an art class sort of last minute for Jeremy's Aunt, so I was rushing to get home and get everything ready.  

Our anniversary was SO much fun!  We got up around 6am, leaving the kids sleeping with Jeremy's parents.  The drive, the weather, and the walk were so beautiful and it was AMAZING to go on a hike without carrying a child half the way (which I did at several long hikes last summer).  

This week has been more relaxed.  Both of the kids have had colds the last few days and have been really tired and cranky from not sleeping well.  I kept Shea home from school yesterday, mostly because he was so emotional about everything, I could barely look at him without him starting to cry!  That kid needed rest and snuggles.  So I let him lay in our bed while he listened to a little house on the prairie book on CD and then after I worked out, we cuddled and listened to it together.  He felt SO much better after that.  I have to remember that this kid thrives and feels loved when he is being held and experiencing something together (can't just read a book or do something NEXT to him, he wants me to be interacting with just him or something together).

My friend Anna came over the other day and took some pictures of me and the kids.  I sewed a few photo props for her and we were hoping to get some other shots with the kids, but this is all they would sit for!  Sometimes "lifestyle" type pictures don't really depict what your everyday family activities look like, but this one is really pretty true to real life.  I have always read to the kids a ton daily and we always have fun doing it.  Plus, I am in an old grubby tank-top with no bra on and shorts, because I was super hot after working out and running around the house cleaning that day.  Pretty real.

I also have been working hard to spring clean/purge the house.  The kids even got rid of like 3 bags of toys and books!  So nice to get some of that clutter out of here.  I also re-arranged our loft.  We had our bed crammed into a corner with our dressers for a while, because Hailey was climbing up on the half-wall and I was scared she was going to fall off the loft.  She doesn't do that anymore, so that means we could finally move the bed back!  The kids also don't keep each other up at night, so I made a little room/nook for them.  It feels much more like a bedroom and I love that we each have more of our own space.

I took these pictures of Hailey the other day.  They aren't the best quality because I had my ISO set too high, but I just love them, because they are SO her.  Crazy, beautiful, messy hair and playing around.

The weather was amazing last week, too!  We have been down at the beach a few times (kids have even worn their swimsuits and splashed in the water).  I love it when it gets sunny too, because all the moms and their kids from the neighborhood come down to the beach, so the kids get to see their friends and I get to talk to the "beach moms" - the ones I only see at community events, but we always hang out and catch up.

And, random hair growing milestone:  When straightened (which I pretty much NEVER do anymore - I don't have time for that nonsense!), my hair can officially fit into a poofy ponytail.